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10 Comments to I Have Personal Intimacy Issues And Have Trouble Getting Close To People And Don’t Date, What Should I Do?

10 Comments

1. Karl J
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   Stop caring. People in general are just as insecure as you are, they just have a better way of covering it up. If someone doesn’t like you for who you then they’re not worth your time

   Friday, October 16th, 2009 at 12:34 am
2. Dean
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   I have had (probably to a lesser extent) this on and off. A result is i’ve probably had above average length relationships, because it takes me longer to be comfortable around someone. I think you need to meet somone you click with ‘mentally.’ I think it helps if the other person knows you want to be intimate ‘underneath’ but struggle with it. Just take thing slowly?

   Friday, October 16th, 2009 at 12:46 am
3. dan
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   find someone who has the same interests as you. Go to a book club or something that only has a few people in it. Relationships have to do with trust. If you don’t trust someone, you wont have a good relationship with them. It will be scary at first, but don’t chicken out. Be yourself, because if they don’t like you for yourself, they’re not true friends

   Friday, October 16th, 2009 at 1:12 am
4. galatian
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   you have to realize although you’re nervous talking to people and becoming close with them you need to face your fear and go for it. If you’re afraid to do that you’ll probably have many regrets.

   Friday, October 16th, 2009 at 1:52 am
5. watermel
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   see a shrink, he/she can really help you, as for me i use Vilift and really helped me, i feel more positive and motivated.

   Friday, October 16th, 2009 at 2:51 am
6. PagansCat L
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   go to counseling.
   its not as crazy as u might think.it can really help.
   if you really wanna change you should give it a try

   Friday, October 16th, 2009 at 3:46 am
7. Kytti
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   well you should talk to your doctor?
   and do whatever they tell you to do

   Friday, October 16th, 2009 at 4:41 am
8. seracx3
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   just leave plz:(

   Friday, October 16th, 2009 at 4:59 am
9. skaterlo
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   you have to get over your fears =]

   Friday, October 16th, 2009 at 5:22 am
10. Call me what you want.
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    check out http://www.stresscenter.com its helped me alot =)

    Friday, October 16th, 2009 at 6:21 am
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